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Real-time alerts

Messages a parent gets when an AI product flags a conversation that may need an adult, by email, text, in the app, or in a daily digest.

  • Parents

What parents should know

A real-time alert tells you something in the chat may need an adult now, instead of waiting until you happen to open the app. It is a notification, not a counselor, and it should include enough of the conversation that you know why it fired.

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What are real-time alerts?

Real-time alerts are notifications tied to a safety filter. When a conversation matches a risk the product is built to catch, the parent gets a message by email, SMS, in the app, or rolled into a daily digest. The useful version includes context. An alert that only says check the app, with no transcript, leaves you guessing.

An alert is not an emergency call. A product can show a crisis resource in the chat and notify a parent without dialing emergency services. If you are the adult who was notified and the message is about self-harm, stay with your child and use a real resource such as 988 in the United States.

Why real-time alerts matter

Topic limits stop some conversations. Alerts cover the ones that get through and look serious. Parents cannot read every line as it happens. The alert is the tap on the shoulder.

The failure mode is a vague ping. If you cannot see what was said, you cannot tell a joke from distress, and you will start ignoring the alerts. Ask to see a sample.

Timing matters too. A daily digest is fine for ordinary topic flags. A message about self-harm should not wait until morning. Ask which events use the fast channel, and try one test so you know what the notification looks like on your phone.

How it shows up in practice

  • A parent gets an SMS during homework time and opens the transcript before deciding what to say.
  • A daily digest covers ordinary flags, and a same-day alert covers distress.
  • The chat itself shows a crisis line, and the product does not pretend to contact emergency services.
  • A school deployment sends the alert to the adults the school assigned, which may not be the parent.

How HeyOtto helps

If a child shows distress, HeyOtto sends real-time safety alerts by email, SMS, in the app, or as a daily digest, and it shows crisis resources in the chat. HeyOtto does not auto-contact emergency services. The parent can open the transcript from the dashboard.

  • Alerts are one of email, SMS, in-app, or a daily digest, not a single vague ping.
  • The chat can show a helpline number. The AI is not a clinician.
  • In the United States, 988 is the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.

For families

See safety alerts

FAQs

Will an alert call 911?

Not on HeyOtto. HeyOtto does not auto-contact emergency services. You get the alert, and the chat can show a crisis resource. If someone is in immediate danger, you contact emergency services yourself.

What should I do when an alert arrives?

Open the transcript. If the message is about self-harm, stay with your child and use 988 in the United States or the local equivalent. Do not leave the conversation to the chatbot. The alert is how you found out. The response is yours.

Can I choose a daily summary instead of a text?

On HeyOtto, yes. Alerts can be email, SMS, in-app, or a daily digest. Use the faster channel for the risks you do not want to discover the next morning.

Do alerts replace reading the chats?

No. Alerts flag moments. The dashboard is where you read the thread and change a limit. A quiet week of alerts does not mean you should never open a transcript.

Sources

Last reviewed September 26, 2026. This entry is reviewed twice a year.