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Parent's guide · Updated October 2026

Is AI safe for kids? What the data says

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64% of US teens use AI chatbots, and 28% of their parents aren't sure whether they do. Here's what surveys, experiments and safety tests actually show about the risks, what reduces them, and what researchers don't know yet. Every number links to its source.

18 studies and sources
Evidence strength rated
What helps, according to the data
What we don't know yet

Quick answer

Is AI safe for kids? The short answer from the data

It depends on the tool and how it's used. The evidence shows real, measurable risks, and it also shows that design and guidance change the outcome.

In the strongest study, the same AI hurt learning when it handed out answers and helped when it gave hints. [5] That pattern, where design matters more than the technology itself, runs through the research.

  1. 01>50% of 1,200 test responses to "13-year-olds" were rated harmful [7]
  2. 02−17% exam scores after answer-giving AI; no drop with a hint-giving tutor [5]
  3. 0335% of UK kids who use chatbots say it feels like a friend [2]
  4. 0428% of parents don't know if their teen uses chatbots [1]

The data supports guided use of tools built for kids. It does not support unsupervised use of adult tools.

By the numbers

How kids are actually using AI

Pew Research Center surveyed 1,458 US teens and one parent each in fall 2025. Use is widespread, and parents often don't know.

Pew Research Center, Feb 2026
  • Parents underestimate use

    51% of parents say their teen uses chatbots; 64% of teens do. 28% of parents aren't sure. [1]

  • Many families haven't talked about it

    42% of parents say they don't talk with their teen about AI chatbots. [1]

  • Parents draw the line at feelings

    79% of parents are OK with teens using AI for information; only 18% for emotional support. [1]

US teens 13–17

64%

use AI chatbots, about 3 in 10 daily [1]

  • Search for information57%
  • Schoolwork help54%
  • Say classmates use it to cheat59%
  • Emotional support or advice12%
  • UK children 9–17 who use chatbots64% [2]

Five risks, five numbers

What the research measured

One headline finding for each risk. The tabs below explain what each number does and doesn't tell you.

  • Hallucinations

    of UK children who use chatbots have no concerns about following their advice. Another 36% aren't sure. [2]

    40%

  • Inappropriate responses

    of 1,200 ChatGPT responses to researchers posing as 13-year-olds were rated harmful in a 2025 test. [7]

    >50%

  • Privacy and oversight

    of US parents don't know whether their teen uses AI chatbots at all. [1]

    28%

  • Overreliance

    lower exam scores after unrestricted AI help. A tutor that gave hints instead of answers avoided the drop. [5]

    −17%

  • Emotional attachment

    of UK children who use chatbots say it feels like talking to a friend. For vulnerable children: 50%. [2]

    35%

Side-by-Side

How strong is the evidence for each risk?

App NameKey findingType of evidenceStrength
Hallucinations
AI models produce "plausible but false statements"; 40% of child users don't question chatbot advice. [4][2]Developer research; UK survey of 1,000 childrenStrong that it happens; little data on how often kids are misled
Inappropriate responses
Over half of 1,200 responses to teen personas were harmful; later teen guardrails were also found to fall short. [7][18]Watchdog tests of specific productsModerate: real failures, but tests vary by product and date
Privacy
€15M fine for OpenAI in Italy, citing in part no under-13 age checks; COPPA now limits how long kids' data can be kept.Regulatory findings and lawStrong: documented by regulators
Overreliance
Unrestricted GPT-4: +48% in practice, −17% on exams. Guardrailed tutor: no exam drop. [5]Randomized field experiment, ~1,000 students, peer reviewedStrong for learning outcomes
Emotional attachment
35% of child users say it feels like a friend; about 1 in 3 teen users of AI companion apps discussed serious matters with AI instead of a person. [2][3]Large surveys; one correlational study of adultsModerate: common, but long-term effects on kids unknown
Evidence check

Strong: peer-reviewed experiments, regulators or well-established mechanisms. Moderate: large surveys or repeated product tests. Sources are numbered at the bottom of the page.

Core risks

Core risks of AI for children, in detail

For each risk: what the data shows, how strong the evidence is, and what reduces it.

01 / 05Hallucinations

AI can sound sure and still be wrong

Chatbots predict likely words. Unless they search the web, they don't look facts up. OpenAI describes hallucinations as "plausible but false statements" and says common training methods reward guessing over admitting uncertainty. [4]

  • What the data shows

    40% of UK children who use chatbots had no concerns about following their advice, and another 36% weren't sure. 58% think using a chatbot is better than searching themselves. [2]

  • How strong the evidence is

    Strong that hallucinations happen. There's little data yet on how often children act on wrong answers.

  • What reduces it

    Teaching kids to check, tools that cite sources or say "I'm not sure", and double-checking anything about health, safety or school.

OpenAI: Why language models hallucinate

Most of these risks aren't unique to one product. They come from how AI models work, how products are designed, and how kids use them.

What reduces risk

What the evidence says actually reduces risk

Ranked from the strongest evidence to expert guidance. No single setting makes AI safe.

  • Guardrails in the design

    Strong: randomized experiment

    Same AI, different design: the hint-giving tutor kept a 127% practice gain with no exam drop, while unrestricted access cut exam scores 17%. [5]

  • Privacy by default

    Strong: law and enforcement

    COPPA requires parental consent under 13 and now limits data retention; regulators have fined providers over weak age checks. [13][14]

  • Tools made for their age

    Expert consensus

    UNICEF and the APA call for products designed around children's development, with age-appropriate defaults, not adult tools adapted afterwards. [11][12]

  • AI literacy

    Expert consensus

    The APA, UNICEF and the OECD all make teaching how AI works, its limits and bias a core recommendation. [11][12][17]

  • Adults who stay involved

    Mixed evidence

    Talking helps kids come to you, but an LSE study found co-use alone wasn't linked to lower online risk. 42% of parents haven't talked about chatbots yet. [16][1]

  • A human for big topics

    Expert guidance

    The APA says AI "is not a substitute for professional health advice". 58% of parents aren't OK with teens using AI for emotional support. [11][1]

Regulators are watching too: in September 2025 the FTC asked seven AI chatbot companies how they test for and protect against harms to children and teens. [15]

Honest gaps

What the research doesn't tell us yet

Good evidence also means being clear about its limits. These gaps matter when you read any claim about AI and kids, including ours.

  • Few long-term studies

    Most data is from 2024–2026. No one yet knows how years of AI use affect children.

    Time

  • Little data on young kids

    The main emotional-effects study excluded under-18s, and most surveys start at age 9 or 13. [10]

    Age

  • Much of it is self-reported

    Surveys capture what kids and parents say, which may differ from what they do.

    Method

  • Products change faster than studies

    Tests describe a product at one moment. Features and filters may have changed since.

    Timing

For parents

Practical safety rules for kids

Eight rules that match the risks above. Short enough to remember, and they work in any AI tool.

In the parent dashboard
  1. 1

    Keep private things private

    No full name, address, school, passwords or photos of yourself.

  2. 2

    Check important facts

    AI can be wrong. Look it up somewhere else or ask an adult.

  3. 3

    Do your own thinking

    Ask for hints and explanations, not finished homework.

  4. 4

    Stop and tell someone

    If something feels weird, scary or wrong, close it and tell a trusted adult.

  5. 5

    Remember it isn't a person

    AI doesn't have feelings or know you, even when it sounds friendly.

  6. 6

    Big feelings go to people

    For worries, health or safety, talk to a parent, teacher or counselor.

  7. 7

    Follow the school rules

    Ask whether AI is allowed before using it for schoolwork.

  8. 8

    Take breaks

    Set a time limit and make time for other things too.

Parents and educators

How parents and educators can help

  • Parents

    At home
    • Find out which AI tools your child uses: 28% of parents aren't sure [1]
    • Choose tools built for your child's age
    • Know what you can see: conversations, alerts or only settings
    • Agree on family rules for privacy, schoolwork and screen time
    • Check in often, without judgment, so they come to you
  • Educators

    At school
    • Teach AI literacy: how it works, bias, errors and privacy [17]
    • Set clear rules on when AI is allowed: 59% of teens say classmates cheat with it [1]
    • Design tasks that reward process: drafts, reasoning and reflection
    • Choose tools with guardrails and strong data protections [5][13]
    • Share guidance with families so home and school rules match

Talk about it

What to discuss with your child

42% of parents haven't talked with their teen about AI chatbots. [1] These four questions map to the risks.

  • "Can AI be wrong?"

    Test it together: ask something you already know, then check the answer.

    Hallucinations

  • "What would you never tell a chatbot?"

    Make the private list together, so it is theirs too.

    Privacy

  • "Who did the thinking?"

    Ask them to explain an answer in their own words.

    Overreliance

  • "Who would you go to if something upset you?"

    Name real people, and promise they won't be in trouble for telling you.

    Content and feelings

HeyOtto

How HeyOtto approaches these risks

This guide covers AI in general. Here's how we've designed HeyOtto around the same evidence.

No system catches everything

So we encourage families to stay involved. Our safety page explains every check, control and alert.

Read how HeyOtto safety works

Designed around the research

  1. Hints before answers

    The approach the PNAS study found protects learning. [5]

  2. Parents can read conversations

    So no parent has to wonder whether, or how, their child uses AI.

  3. Real-time safety alerts

    In the Parent Dashboard, alongside per-child topic limits.

  4. Built for ages 8–18

    A parent creates the account and sets each child's age.

  5. No ads, data never sold

    Privacy-protective defaults for kids and teens.

FAQ

Is AI safe for kids? FAQ

Straight answers, with the numbers behind them.

  1. The data says it depends on the tool and how it's used. Tests have found harmful responses to teen accounts, and a 2025 study found answer-giving AI lowered exam scores 17%. The same study found a hint-giving tutor avoided that drop. Tools built for kids, AI literacy and involved parents reduce the risks.

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Research and sources cited

Sources

Numbers in brackets throughout this page refer to these sources. We checked each one in October 2026.

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